Tuesday, November 2, 2010
Problems? No problem...
I like this free article(well, don't you?) so thought of sharing it here. Wonder why some people pays thousands of dollars to figure out something like this. Something similar to high powered life management from Feng Shui Seminars but which makes more sense as you can start using it right away...
18 Problem Solving Questions
Curt Rosengren, On Thursday 14 October 2010, 23:38 SGT
Whatever your path, at some point you're going to come smack up against problems that feel like in impenetrable wall. While there is no magic wand solution to making that wall disappear, asking questions is the next best thing. Asking questions can help you pinpoint where the trouble is, identify creative approaches to solving the problems, and even change your perception of reality so the problem disappears (or at least becomes irrelevant).
There is no one-size-fits-all approach to using questions to solve the problems you encounter. So instead, here are 18 questions to help you design your own approach. You'll probably find some questions more effective than others, depending on the situation.
This isn't a step-by-step list of questions to ask, so scan the list and see which ones jump out at you. Pick one and start there. See what happens. Then pick another one and dig into that. Build on what gives you results and toss what doesn't. Use these questions as a starting point for a self-taught mastery of problem solving.
1. What are the obstacles? Take inventory of the obstacles getting in your way. Get them out of your head and onto paper so you can start sorting through them. It sounds like a no-brainer, but I'm always amazed at how often people leave their problems in the abstract, flying around inside their brains.
2. What one change could I make that would make the biggest impact? Sometimes one big change can make seemingly impenetrable obstacles suddenly feel more permeable. It can shift things enough that the other contributing factors lose their potency or become irrelevant. Or it can take you far enough down the path toward a solution that you can get a new perspective.
3. Which obstacles can be easily removed? If there are obstacles you're facing that are easily removed, start there to get some momentum. You might be surprised at how much difference it makes.
4. What needs to happen for this problem to disappear? Look at the mechanics of the problem. Take a look at the factors contributing to the problem, and then explore which ones need to be changed, improved, or eliminated.
5. Where are the sticking points? Think of getting from where you are to where you want to go as a process flow. First this happens, then that, and then that. Map out a step-by-step ideal world flow of how you could get there. Then look at that flow and identify the sticking points by comparing it with your less-than-ideal world situation. Where are the sticking points?
6. How can I improve this process? Instead of looking at it from a problem perspective, look at it as a process improvement exercise. How could you improve your process? How could you improve how you approach it? How could you improve the efforts you are making?
7. Am I the problem? How? No amount of external problem-solving will do the trick if the obstacle is really created by you. Do you have attitudes, habits, beliefs, etc. that are creating this problem?
8. Are there other paths to the end I'm looking for? Write down the obvious way to get from where you are to where you want to go. Then ignore it. Come up with as many other paths as you can think of for getting there.
9. Can I change any of the variables? Often when we look at problems, we see them in terms of a finite set of parameters. List all the variables you see (how much time it takes, who is involved, whether to do something yourself or hire someone to do it, etc.) and play with changing them. What effect could that have?
10. Who has done this before? If someone else has already invented the wheel, don't bang your head bloody trying to create it again. Who else has been up against the problem you're encountering? Can you talk to them? Read about how they approached it?
11. Does this really matter? This might seem like a funny question to include in a list with a problem solving focus, but the ultimate in problem solving is when the problem instantaneously ceases to exist. Sometimes we get so caught up in making something happen, or doing it a certain way, that we don't realize it is taking more of our energy than solving it would benefit us. If you are only trying to solve the problem "because it's there," consider dropping it and focusing your energy and effort elsewhere.
12. What would I do if I didn't think this were a problem? Sometimes our perception that a problem exists becomes the problem itself. Try exploring what you would do if you didn't see whatever you're up against as a problem. The example that comes to mind is two people without a degree. One says, "I don't have a degree, so I'm limited in my options." The other says, "I don't have a degree...now how can I start creating more options?"
13. What information do I need? What information am I missing? Sometimes problems exist because we don't have enough information to solve them. Identifying what information you need and what information you're missing gives you a starting point change that.
14. How would ______ solve this? Get out of your own story and look at it from someone else's point of view. If there is someone you especially admire, or someone who is well known for solving things like this, ask yourself how they would solve it.
15. How would I solve this if I had to take an opposite-brained approach? Are you more naturally linear or creative in your approach to things? Whichever it is, spend some time doing the opposite. Look for resources to help you take an approach to problem-solving that is the opposite of your natural tendencies.
16. How many solutions can I come up with? Don't worry about quality with this one. Go for quantity. Make it a game. You'll probably come up with a whole lot of goofy ideas, but they just might pave the way for some good ones.
17. What new habits could I create that would help me overcome this? If your goals are going to come to fruition, you are the one who is going to have to be the driving force. Are there any habits that could help make you more effective, reducing friction and limitations in the process?
18. How could ____ relate to my problem? At the end of my sessions with clients, I used to pull a tarot card and read the explanation in the accompanying book. There was no divination intent to it. Instead, it was accompanied by the question, "Does this relate to your current situation in any way?" Sometimes it didn't, but 75 percent of the time that question yielded valuable insights. The card offered something specific for their minds to bounce off, helping them make random connections and have unexpected insights.
You can do that with just about anything, whether it is a tarot card, news about miners stuck in a mine (how could this relate to my career?), your favorite artist's approach to painting, or the traffic on the way to work. It offers a way to get outside your standard set of thoughts and associations.
Questions alone won't solve your problems. You also have to combine them with action and persistent, consistent effort. But the more good questions you ask, the more problem-solving potential you have.
Have a good week as by now, you should have revved up your engine...
Cheers.
A song to charge ahead
Saturday, October 23, 2010
The Magician
茅山神算法 重現江湖來
能知過去事 不用纸筆写....................
妙安堂
Nothing much to write so thought I would like to share part of a note from a facebook friend this week about Black magic in South East Asia.
Lao Miao Zhu's notes
法術by Lao Miao Zhu on Saturday, 18 September 2010 at 18:20
時常會聴到某某大法師的法術很高明,那些中降頭者向他求助,他只用鸡蛋在受術者頭上,身上唸唸有詞。然後將鸡蛋打開,肯定會發現有鐵釘在里面,求術者會被法師施法解降之後,回復正常。聽起來很神奇,再上旁聽者加油添醋,故事也變得很精彩生動,到底眞的從求術者身上取出生锈鐵釘,還是法師在鸡蛋中做手脚?
Spiritual Arts
Very often, we will hear a story that so and so Master is so accomplished in the supernatural arts. Those that thought that they have been affected by Black Magic will look to him for help. He will just place a chicken egg at the victim' s head and do some chanting. Suddenly the egg will break and a nail will be discovered in it. The victim will then be cured and go back to being normal. When hearing the story, it sounds so profound and with most of the listeners adding in more excitement and encouragements , the story becomes alive and colorful. End of the day, the question is, did the nail comes from the victim' s body into the egg or is there some magic illusions involved.
術就是艺術,美術,魔術。很多人都見過魔術的表演吧!
Arts can be performing arts, literary arts, the arts of magic which many people have seen.
眼睛所見到的未必是眞的。這就是魔術師利害的地方,還有一些大法師或降頭師會表演這一招看你否是有中降頭。同樣一壶茶,你手上所拿的茶會變黒色,表示你己經中降頭了。
The eyes can be deceived easily and sometimes it is just an illusion like what magicians are so adept at. There are some Spiritual Masters who will often use a cup of tea which will turn black in color while you are holding it to show that you have been hit by black magic.
這只是借用一種中藥矇騙無知人士的千術而己,上天有好生之德,人在做,天在看。
This actually is using a type of Chinese herbs to cheat the ignorant ones. Heavens help only those with merits.
'What You Do, The Gods Watches.' or 'Man proposes, Heaven disposes'
老廟祝祈求江湖大法師,降頭師,高抬貴手,別再欺騙善良無知人士吧!
Old Miao here pleads that spiritual masters, black magic masters, shows your magnanimity and do not take advantage of the ignorant people!
Have a Magical Weekend.
: )
能知過去事 不用纸筆写....................
妙安堂
Nothing much to write so thought I would like to share part of a note from a facebook friend this week about Black magic in South East Asia.
Lao Miao Zhu's notes
法術by Lao Miao Zhu on Saturday, 18 September 2010 at 18:20
時常會聴到某某大法師的法術很高明,那些中降頭者向他求助,他只用鸡蛋在受術者頭上,身上唸唸有詞。然後將鸡蛋打開,肯定會發現有鐵釘在里面,求術者會被法師施法解降之後,回復正常。聽起來很神奇,再上旁聽者加油添醋,故事也變得很精彩生動,到底眞的從求術者身上取出生锈鐵釘,還是法師在鸡蛋中做手脚?
Spiritual Arts
Very often, we will hear a story that so and so Master is so accomplished in the supernatural arts. Those that thought that they have been affected by Black Magic will look to him for help. He will just place a chicken egg at the victim' s head and do some chanting. Suddenly the egg will break and a nail will be discovered in it. The victim will then be cured and go back to being normal. When hearing the story, it sounds so profound and with most of the listeners adding in more excitement and encouragements , the story becomes alive and colorful. End of the day, the question is, did the nail comes from the victim' s body into the egg or is there some magic illusions involved.
術就是艺術,美術,魔術。很多人都見過魔術的表演吧!
Arts can be performing arts, literary arts, the arts of magic which many people have seen.
眼睛所見到的未必是眞的。這就是魔術師利害的地方,還有一些大法師或降頭師會表演這一招看你否是有中降頭。同樣一壶茶,你手上所拿的茶會變黒色,表示你己經中降頭了。
The eyes can be deceived easily and sometimes it is just an illusion like what magicians are so adept at. There are some Spiritual Masters who will often use a cup of tea which will turn black in color while you are holding it to show that you have been hit by black magic.
這只是借用一種中藥矇騙無知人士的千術而己,上天有好生之德,人在做,天在看。
This actually is using a type of Chinese herbs to cheat the ignorant ones. Heavens help only those with merits.
'What You Do, The Gods Watches.' or 'Man proposes, Heaven disposes'
老廟祝祈求江湖大法師,降頭師,高抬貴手,別再欺騙善良無知人士吧!
Old Miao here pleads that spiritual masters, black magic masters, shows your magnanimity and do not take advantage of the ignorant people!
Have a Magical Weekend.
: )
Wednesday, October 20, 2010
Who let the Cat out?
Well, a Feng Shui story,
Grasshopper and his Master
Grasshopper: ‘Master, what is this Qi that everybody is talking about?’
Master: ‘What do you actually mean?’
Grasshopper: ‘I mean is it invisible Energy?’
Master: ‘How do you know it is invisible?’
Grasshopper: ‘We can’t see it right?’
Master:’ Can the fishes see the water they are swimming in?’
Grasshopper protest: ‘But we can’t use that to compare!’
Master: ‘Of course, you are not a fish and you won’t know what the fish knows’
Grasshopper: ‘Then?’
Master: ‘Is there any fishes in the Oceans that do not have water in its bodies?’
Thinking he have got it finally,
Grasshopper: ‘Maybe I rephrase it Master, if Qi is the air that we breathe, why does it comes from the ground below us and also in the water and also from the Heavens’
Master: ‘Can the Fish see you?’
Grasshopper: ‘Depends’
Master: ‘Therefore Partly….’
Grasshopper: ‘Why Partly? I don’t understand about the Fish seeing me’
Master: ‘Be patient, you will know as time goes by.’
Many, many years later,
Grasshopper and his disciple Fishy
Fishy: ‘Master, what is this Qi that we must learn to use in Feng shui’
Master Grasshopper: ‘What do you actually mean?’
Fishy: ‘I mean is it Visible and Invisible Energy?’
Master: ‘You mean it is Visible and Invisible Energy?’
Fishy: ‘Yes, it should have two forms’
Master: ‘Can you see Energy in Forms’
Fishy: ‘Yes in the clouds that are moved by the winds, in the rains that comes down on us’
Master: ‘Then what is Energy???’
Fishy: ‘Qi is then Energy’
Master: ‘Partly….’
Fishy: ‘Why partly?’
Master: ‘Does the rain that comes down on us fill us with Energy?’
Fishy: 'But Master, it does not but it gives life to everything.'
Master: ‘Be patient, and one fine day, you will know…’
Somewhere in the Near Future,
Master Fishy and his disciple Ignoramus
Master Fishy: 'So Ignoramus, what do you understand about Qi now?'
To be continued…….
Ha-ha, cheers.
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Friday, October 15, 2010
Of Angels and Demons

Beep!!!!!!
Ha-ha, I am getting Bored and I want to let off steams as what they will says in 5arts Forum.
This is the Bazi chart for Liu Wei , the talented no arms pianist that I have mentioned in my last post.
壬 己 己 丁
申 丑 酉 卯
Hour pillar not known and 壬申is for show only.
戊 Luck Pillar
申 9-18 years
丁 1997
丑 10 years old. Lost his arms through an accident
while playing with high voltage wires.
Shen Sha or Angels and Demons in Bazi,
丑is also his Heaven Dog star, a person with this star is prone to injuries from accidents. As in the classical text, two competing of Chou 丑 for metal combination will unlock the existing partial Tri-combination of 丑 and 酉 in the original chart and release 酉 to clash on to 卯 in the original birth chart. 酉 is also known as the Misfortune star. 卯 represent the arms or fingers. However some experts says that there is no tri-combinations as there is an existing clash by the side. So will that means that if a person spouse palace or day pillar have an existing clash will never get married?
丁 Luck pillar
未 19 to 28 years
is supposed to be his Heaven Void meaning Empty during this period, why is it not activated? It is also his sword star and combining with 卯 in the chart and moving the sword. Do you realised he has almost the same chart as Mr. Obama and even the present luck pillar? 丑 is also known as the flying sword star as it clash the sword star 未, do you know how to use this star? In this case study, who won the duel?
His hurting officer 庚 2010
His Fan Power 寅 23 years old
when he won the award. The clash by 寅 on 申 is what some
masters would says is favorable called 沖 旺 'Prosperous clash' if the hour pillar I work out from Da Liu Ren is correct and
will however still makes sense if you check the ZWDS Chart right to the month and day he won the award. So have I confused you enough? Ha-ha, just kiddings.
Till-then, cheers.
Monday, October 11, 2010
Unfair World?
Trust the Yi Jing to immediately come up with an inspiration after I complained today. The following episode reminds me of a many time makeover favorite chinese TV drama based on a chinese sword-fighting novel : 'The Return of the Condor Hero' and seeing it comes to Life on screen.
From Shanghai Post, Liu Wei had won the 'China Got Talent' award,
'Liu didn't put a foot, or a toe, wrong with an impeccable performance on the piano, and he was in fine voice, too, as he sang "You're Beautiful" to conquer the live audience and those watching at home.
Winning over the judges with his remark "at least I have a pair of perfect legs," Liu became the only finalist to move all three.' (This was in reply to when he was told by somebody that he is handicapped with missing arms when it comes to doing things.)
The following video is self-explanatory(no translations yet, my apologies) :
Ha-ha, well as they says: ' In Imperfections, then we Realised Perfections, the Yin and Yang'
Do you envy him, an before, handicapped but Now Superstar with his attitude in Life? Or shall we says he is truly a Master of his own Destiny...
Cheers.
From Shanghai Post, Liu Wei had won the 'China Got Talent' award,
'Liu didn't put a foot, or a toe, wrong with an impeccable performance on the piano, and he was in fine voice, too, as he sang "You're Beautiful" to conquer the live audience and those watching at home.
Winning over the judges with his remark "at least I have a pair of perfect legs," Liu became the only finalist to move all three.' (This was in reply to when he was told by somebody that he is handicapped with missing arms when it comes to doing things.)
The following video is self-explanatory(no translations yet, my apologies) :
Ha-ha, well as they says: ' In Imperfections, then we Realised Perfections, the Yin and Yang'
Do you envy him, an before, handicapped but Now Superstar with his attitude in Life? Or shall we says he is truly a Master of his own Destiny...
Cheers.
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Comparisons in Life?
A Chinese Saying,
'If you want to know your past - look into your present conditions. If you want to know your future - look into your present actions.'
Well, doesn't the above proverb sounds familiar, to change Destiny, we have to start with the word Self.
As usual, being bored with another new week and having lose my directions in Life and with nothing new to excite or put inspirations into my routine, and then a little voice inside my brain reminds me 'Remember when you complains about the lousy dinner you had the last time', our dear Mr. Yi Jing reminding me again.
So I thought I will share it here again for my readers who do not feel comfortable to come to my Facebook of the Change we need now when compared to those unfortunate ones when we carry on with our life this week like me, looking for a reason about life......
Till-then, cheers.
'If you want to know your past - look into your present conditions. If you want to know your future - look into your present actions.'
Well, doesn't the above proverb sounds familiar, to change Destiny, we have to start with the word Self.
As usual, being bored with another new week and having lose my directions in Life and with nothing new to excite or put inspirations into my routine, and then a little voice inside my brain reminds me 'Remember when you complains about the lousy dinner you had the last time', our dear Mr. Yi Jing reminding me again.
So I thought I will share it here again for my readers who do not feel comfortable to come to my Facebook of the Change we need now when compared to those unfortunate ones when we carry on with our life this week like me, looking for a reason about life......
Till-then, cheers.
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