'Friends love misery, in fact. Sometimes, especially if we are too lucky or too successful or too pretty, our misery is the only thing that endears us to our friends.'
To carry on the Blindman technique from the last post. What am I doing at home on a TGIF night? Taking a break, getting old, man. : )
Here we go,
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It depends on how you establish the yong shen or useful god which is the most favorable element in the chart. In Zi Ping for weak daymaster, parallel stars and resource stars are favorable even if it is in the spouse palace as it strenghten the weak daymaster. For Mangpai as the approach uses the most favorable element or Useful God could then mean Resource stars favored while parallel stars could then be unfavorable in the spouse palace.
For relationships or marriage in this chart from age 33 onwards represented by the Day pillar, each pillar at 16 years, the substitute spouse star E11 Xu denote more favorable relationship and marriage would definetely take place in this period. Xu E11 have the HHS H4 in this earth element which support the daymaster. There are only two combination with other elements E4 Mao and E7 Wu for fire and nothing else to weaken the daymaster. And fire is the useful god in this chart. However, the appearance of another spouse star E11 Xu at the hour pillar could also indicate remarriage or another relationship later on.
Now using Zi Ping, the actual spouse star H10 Gui appeared at this ten year luck pillar of 34 onwards coincide with the Blindman approach. The Chou E2 however would be attempting to complete the Tri-Combinations of Si Chou and You and unfavorable in this ten years luck cycle as it locked the support from Si E6 and it could also mean the marriage might be rocky, ha-ha, no pun meant on Earth. There is also a partial persecuting clash between Chou and Xu in this ten years. This also coincide with the blindman theory of another marriage in later years.
Anyway, I m sharing this for general knowledge. You can try practising this approach after you have used Zi Ping analysis. However, do not attempt to use it direct for clients or friend. This is for all of you to look at charts with missing spouse star from another perspective. Ha-ha, looks like I can go and set up a Dating Agency soon with all this practising here.
You are welcomed. There is no end to learning as I am also learning thru discussion with all of you.
To conclude, let me just expand on your Ren H9 and Ding H4 combination in Zi Ping which you have put your perspective that bazi is not a dead thing, ha-ha, where imagination would have to be used. As you said it would also mean other women as Bi Jian or Jie Cai could also means apart from peers.
Using the blindman technique, you can see that the first spouse star H6 is problematic having relationship with You E10 (Wealth) which have a combination with Si E6 (parallel stars), in this case other women and indicated that most of the men the subject meet have been combined or married. E10 You unfavorable trying to combine away favorable Si E6 into Metal is unfavorable for weak daymaster.
That will be all.
Okay, as usual,
10 Commandments of Marriage
Marriages are made in heaven. But so again, are thunder and lightning.
If you want your spouse to listen and pay strict attention to every word you say, talk in your sleep.
Marriage is grand -- and divorce is at least 100 grand!
Married life is very frustrating. In the first year of marriage, the man speaks and the woman listens. In the second year, the woman speaks and the man listens. In the third year, they both speak and the neighbors listen.
When a man opens the door of his car for his wife, you can be sure of one thing: Either the car is new or the wife is.
Marriage is when a man and woman become as one; the trouble starts when they try to decide which one.
Before marriage, a man will lie awake all night thinking about something you said. After marriage, he will fall asleep before you finish talking.
Every man wants a wife who is beautiful, understanding, economical, and a good cook. But the law allows only one wife.
Every woman wants a man who is handsome, understanding, economical and a considerate lover, but again, the law allows only one husband.
Man is incomplete until he marries. After that, he is finished.